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miranda - 2004-07-14 15:50:00 b) Can I come to your BBQ, 1.I like BBQ 2. I make an amazing cheesecake and 3. I'm 6'1 225 so I pretty much intimidate the hell out of most people so I'm certain your little friend would wander off pretty quicklyc) We men are S L O W if a woman digs us we don't get it, if a woman hates our guts, we don't get it. I know those guys, hell I AM those guys. I think it was out of pure pity and for the safety of all woman-kind that my wife took me off the streets. ------------------------------- Michelle - 2004-07-14 16:39:32 Sure you can come yo my BBQ! I swear i'm inviting everyone i know. I'm making 3 side dishes: A pasta salad, a cinnamon chip and fruit dip thing and a pumpkin fluff thing. I make a mean veggie pizza but mayo and humidity don't work well together. Thanks for the comments! ------------------------------- warcrygirl - 2004-07-14 16:55:28 I'm like you, I just hope the guy gets the hint without me having to tell him I'm not interested. It sounds like this guy needs to hear it. Hell, he may even need it branded onto his forehead, just in case. Did this one have a big forehead, too? LOL ------------------------------- Michelle - 2004-07-14 17:06:22 OMG! LOL! You crack me up, i totally forgot about Big Forehead dude. You guys gotta go read the entry with Areola's in the title. That was a good dating story too. Shit girl, i'm still laughing over here. No "Mark" doesn't have a big forehead. Come to think of it he's a really tiny guy. I just played the message for a couple coworkers. They think i need to get drunk at my BBQ. That would solve everything. I have no filter when i get drunk. I might end up hurting his feelings though...so we'll file that one under "Maybe." ------------------------------- ubergrrl - 2004-07-14 18:54:29 Hmm... the plan sounds good. However, if you get to the point of flirting with the gay boys (I have taken this approach too)... and he still hasn't backed off, either at your BBQ or afterwards, you're going to HAVE to tell him you're not interested. If you want, I'd take great pleasure in telling him for you. In fact, maybe you and I can just trade rejections.. you tell my stupid dates to screw off, and I'll tell yours. That could be fun. ------------------------------- HRT - 2004-07-15 08:52:35 Ok what I am about to say may offend some people. But if you think that I'm talking about you, but you think that you are the exception to this rule... then maybe you are, or maybe you are exactly who I'm talking about. Now I don't know if your tiny small foreheaded "friend" is currently or has previously had a serious long-lasting committed relationship, but. It has been my observation that many (perhaps not all) men that reach the age of 40 (or just shy there-of) who haven't had a serious, significant relationship (i.e. LTR, marriage, engagement etc.) often have some combination of: SERIOUS personality defect, and/or they not only DON'T get it, but they WON'T get it. I say this not to be mean, because one of my best friends is that guy. He's 42 never been married, been semi-close to engagement at least twice but some how he always ends up torpedoing his chances. So if your "friend" is this guy, you will have to politely but bluntly take him aside and let him know that you aren't and don't anticpate being interested in him. It's tough love, and yes, you may hurt his feelings, but also, you may just save his life... Speak up!: |